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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

13.06.2025 03:23

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

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5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

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46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

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7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

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52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

Do you think your landlord should have a key to your room?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

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9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

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Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

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4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

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6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

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*** Questions About Me ***

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

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*** Random Questions ***

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

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3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

I broke up with my boyfriend because he wasn’t transparent about his past, it hurts me and he doesn’t care. I told him in the beginning of our relationship that it was a deal breaker for me what do I do?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

How old are you? Male or Female?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

If yes, what?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

What is your favorite position? Why?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

Family Relation Age Play

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

The Ice Breaker Questions

52~ What are your hobbies?

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

If you win, what will you make them do?

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

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46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

Have you ever? Care to Share?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

Nothing too Serious

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

Would you read them together?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

Any that are a turn off?

29- How superstitious are you?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

Any that are a turn off?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

Please share Did you stop?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

39~ What are your love languages?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?